I Didn’t Even Like Him… But God Said He Was My Husband (A Christian Love Story Testimony)
What happens when the man God chose for you doesn’t match the list you made?
What do you do when your heart says “no,” but heaven keeps whispering “yes”?
This is Nancy’s story.
And if you’ve ever wondered whether God still writes love stories — the kind where prophecy, obedience, and spiritual growth lead to real Kingdom marriage — this one will stretch your faith.
The Beginning: When God’s Plan Doesn’t Match Your Type
Nancy met her now-husband, Lionel, while working night shifts at a condominium. Their first interaction wasn’t romantic. It wasn’t even warm. He barely spoke.
But one thing stood out: he noticed her Bible.
What began as casual spiritual conversations quickly evolved into deep discussions about Scripture and prophecy. Lionel began to prophesy things he had no way of knowing — things about her past, her future, even the condition of her heart. It shook Nancy. This wasn’t the type of man she pictured marrying. He didn’t fit her checklist. Not physically. Not culturally. Not stylistically.
But God wouldn’t let her ignore the truth that He was revealing piece by piece.
“He said, ‘You’re my wife. God told me.’ And I just sat there, stunned. Because I didn’t even like him… yet I knew God was confirming it.”
The Process: When Obedience Comes Before Emotion
Nancy didn’t instantly feel butterflies or have an overnight romance. Instead, she wrestled. She questioned. She even tried to pursue someone else.
But God was relentless in His pursuit of her heart and His plan for her life.
And in one powerful moment — after crying, screaming, and surrendering in her car — she finally prayed:
“Lord, if this is the man You have for me, open my heart to see him the way You see him.”
The very next morning, she woke up flooded with emotion.
“I think I like him,” she told Lionel.
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Godly Love Doesn’t Always Look Like You Expect — But It’s Always Better
Fast forward: Nancy and Lionel have now been married for 13 years. Their foundation is prayer, prophecy, worship, and deep mutual respect.
Their marriage isn’t built on feelings alone — it’s built on spiritual agreement.
She didn’t “settle.” She surrendered.
And what God gave her in return was peace, partnership, and purpose.
Real Takeaways for Women of Faith:
- You don’t need to “feel it” before you trust God.
- Your “type” might be blocking your blessing.
- If God says yes, even when your emotions say no — pray for a heart reset.
- Love grows in the soil of obedience, not just chemistry.
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Final Thoughts
Nancy’s story isn’t just about romance. It’s about learning to trust the God who sees beyond what you can see. It’s about submission, not just to a man — but to the Word of God.
So if you’re in a relationship that feels confusing…
If you’re single but secretly doubting if God sees you…
If you’re married but disconnected…
Let this story be your reminder:
God is still writing love stories.
Sometimes, they begin when you finally stop rewriting the script.
Nancy’s story is a testament that when God chooses your spouse, He also prepares your heart to love them.
And when she did, He gave her more than she ever could have imagined.
Are you trusting God with your love story? Have you ever experienced a time when God confirmed something unexpected in your life?
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